Dating Do or Not to Do

Do or Not to Do… Don’t? when dating

Dating ain’t easy brother.  That first date is always going to be the most awkward, but if you make it through you have date two to redeem yourself.  You’ll probably good it up, go ahead and get it out of the way at the start.  Once you mess up and say that wrong thing, maybe laugh about it, then you can really start getting to know each other.

You really only have to do a few things to be considered a good date.  Be on time and look great.  This will let your date know that you respect their time and that you dressed up because it is important to you to be on this date.

Have fun.  If you aren’t having fun then you aren’t doing it right.  If you can have fun on a date then it allows your date to have fun too.

It is OK to make a compliment to your date.  Let them know that you notice those earrings or really like his shoes.  Whatever, you want, just try to stay classy.  Stay interested and stay active in the conversation.   It lets your date know that you can carry a conversation and that you can stand the sound of their voice.  Those are both really good things!

If you don’t want to see the person again then let them know.  It is a lot more polite to tell someone upfront.  You don’t have to give a reason, but if you do, try not to hurt their feelings, think of the most delicate way to tell the entire truth.  Also, try to stay positive during the date even if you feel that it isn’t going that great.  If you stay positive it might turn around.

If you have a good time and your date has a good time then you are on your way to date three or more.  Keep up the good work and have fun!

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